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Pet Loss

Navigating Holiday Gatherings After the Loss of a Pet

Losing a pet during the holidays can make gatherings emotionally overwhelming—especially when others minimize your grief. Pet loss grief is real, valid, and deeply personal. You are allowed to protect yourself during a season that often pressures people to “be happy.” When People Say “It’s Just a Pet” Not everyone understands the depth of the human–animal bond. You are not responsible for educating them. Protective responses you can use: Remember: Protecting Your Heart in a Room Full of Celebration Holiday joy can feel isolating when you’re grieving. You don’t need to perform happiness. Emotional self-protection strategies: Self-Care During the Holidays After Pet Loss Grief is exhausting. Conserving your energy matters. Practical self-care tips: If Attending Feels Like Too Much You are allowed to choose yourself. Grief is not something to “push through.” It’s something to be carried with care. Final Thought Your pet mattered. Your loss is real.Protecting yourself during the holidays isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. You don’t need to justify your grief.You need to honor it.

Pet Safety

Helping Pets Feel Emotionally Safe During the Holidays

The holidays bring joy, noise, visitors, and full houses — and while people may thrive on it, pets often feel overwhelmed. New faces, louder rooms, kids running around, and disrupted routines can quickly turn festive into stressful for animals. With a little awareness, preparation, and kid-friendly guidance, you can protect your pet’s emotional well-being while still enjoying gatherings with family and friends. Why the Holidays Can Be Stressful for Pets Even the most social animals can struggle during this season. Common stressors include: Pets express stress differently — some become clingy, others withdraw, hide, bark, growl, pace, or show subtle body language cues. Knowing these signals is the first step to protecting their emotional health. Signs Your Pet May Be Overwhelmed Dogs Cats If you see these signs, it’s time to give them space and comfort. Why Reprimanding a Stressed Pet Can Make Things Worse During the holidays, pets are often surrounded by unfamiliar energy, loud voices, new smells, and people moving through their space all at once. When they react by barking, hiding, growling, or pacing, it’s not “bad behavior” — it’s communication. Reprimanding or scolding a pet during these moments can actually increase fear and anxiety. It teaches the animal that not only is the environment unsafe — but now their human is unsafe too. This can lead to: Instead of punishment, focus on support and redirection: Your pet isn’t trying to be difficult. They’re navigating an environment that feels confusing, unpredictable, and emotionally intense. Choosing patience over punishment protects their emotional health and keeps everyone safer. Creating a “Holiday Haven” for Your Pet Set up a calm, pet-only retreat before guests arrive: Giving your pet control over when they engage helps reduce stress and anxiety. Managing Pet Interactions with Guests Remember: a tired or overstimulated pet is more likely to react negatively. Teaching Kids to Interact Safely with Pets Holidays often mean excited children, and pets don’t always understand their enthusiasm. Coaching kids ahead of time prevents accidents and fosters respectful interactions. 1. “Ask Before You Touch” Rule Teach kids to always ask a grown-up and the animal for permission.Animals “say yes or no” with their body language. 2. The Two-Finger Petting Rule Perfect for toddlers and young children: This reduces overwhelm and trains kids to be gentle and respectful. 3. No Hugs, No Riding, No Pulling Many kids show affection physically — but to most animals, these behaviors feel scary or painful. Be clear about what’s off-limits: 4. Be a “Pet Detective” Game Teach kids to look for clues in the pet’s body language. Turn it into fun: This builds empathy and helps children develop animal awareness. 5. Set Time Limits Young children can overwhelm pets without realizing it. Try guidelines like: “Pet for five seconds, then stop and see what the pet does.” If the pet stays or leans in — continue. If they walk away — that’s a ‘no thank you.’ This teaches consent in an age-appropriate way. — When to Step In Kids and pets should always be supervised. Step in immediately if: Your pet is cornered A child is too excited or rough The pet’s body language shows stress Kids forget the rules Stopping the interaction keeps everyone safe, confident, and comfortable. — Final Thoughts Holidays are about connection — and that includes respecting your pet’s emotional needs. By avoiding reprimands, offering appropriate support, preparing quiet spaces, and coaching kids on gentle, respectful interaction, your home can remain both festive and pet-friendly.

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Pet Safety

Holiday Hazards: Foods, Decorations, and Essential Oils That Can Harm Your Pets

The holiday season is filled with celebration, beautiful décor, and delicious meals — but it can also bring hidden dangers for our pets. Many foods, scents, and decorations that make the season festive can be harmful to cats and dogs. Knowing what to avoid helps ensure a safe, joyful holiday for your entire family. Holiday Foods That Can Harm Pets Even a small bite of certain holiday favorites can cause serious health problems for pets. Be careful with these common foods: Decorations That Pose a Risk Holiday décor can be irresistible to curious pets. Keep an eye on hazards such as: Essential Oils That Are Toxic to Pets Many essential oils commonly diffused during the holidays can harm pets — especially cats. Avoid using or diffusing these oils around animals: Exposure may cause drooling, vomiting, difficulty breathing, tremors, or liver damage. Keeping Your Pets Safe A few simple steps can make your holidays safer for pets: Pro Tip:Keep your veterinarian’s phone number, your nearest 24-hour emergency clinic, and the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center (888-426-4435) easily accessible. Quick action can save your pet’s life. Stay Connected With Your Pet’s Well-Being If you’re ready to deepen your bond with your animal and gain intuitive insight into their emotional, physical, and energetic needs, I’m here to help. As Tamarah Wild — Pet Psychic & Medium, I offer compassionate guidance, animal communication, and support for understanding your pet on a soul level. 👉 Visit: TamarahWild.com👉 Book a session: Connect with your pet’s messages, behaviors, and emotional needs👉 Follow along for more pet wellness, safety tips, and intuitive teachings Your pets trust you — and I’m here to help you understand them even more deeply. FAQ: Holiday Pet Safety ❓ What holiday foods are most dangerous for pets?Chocolate, xylitol, raisins, grapes, alcohol, onions, garlic, cooked bones, and fatty foods are among the most dangerous. Even small amounts can cause vomiting, seizures, pancreatitis, or organ damage. ❓ Are Christmas trees safe for pets?Christmas trees can be risky. Pets may chew electrical cords, swallow ornaments, or drink contaminated tree water. Always supervise your pet around a decorated tree and secure the tree to prevent tipping. ❓ Can pets be around essential oils during the holidays?Many essential oils — including tea tree, eucalyptus, peppermint, cinnamon, pine, and citrus oils — can be toxic to pets if diffused, ingested, or applied to their skin. Avoid diffusing oils in shared spaces unless confirmed safe for animals. ❓ What holiday plants should I keep away from my pets?Poinsettias, holly, mistletoe, and lilies can cause stomach upset, drooling, or more severe toxic reactions. Keep these plants out of reach or opt for high-quality artificial alternatives. ❓ How can I keep my pets calm during holiday gatherings?Provide a quiet, safe space away from guests, noise, and activity. Use familiar bedding, toys, calming music, or pheromone diffusers designed for pets. Avoid essential oils unless they are certified pet-safe. ❓ What should I do if my pet eats something toxic?Contact your veterinarian or the nearest 24-hour emergency clinic immediately. You can also call the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center (888-426-4435) for urgent guidance.

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Pet Death Doula

What Does a Pet Death Doula Do?

Saying goodbye to a pet is one of life’s most difficult experiences. Pets bring unconditional love, comfort, and joy, and losing them can feel devastating. A pet death doula provides compassionate end-of-life support, helping both pets and their families navigate this sacred, but painful, chapter. As an animal communicator, I  connect with your pet to understand their feelings and needs, and then share this information with you, ensuring their comfort and dignity throughout this transition. Together, we create a calm, loving environment where your pet feels safe, supported, and honored in their final days. My Role as a Pet Death Doula and Animal Communicator As a pet death doula and animal communicator, I support you and your beloved animal during this sacred, but painful, chapter. I provide: Comfort, presence, and guidance for pets and their families. Animal communication to understand your pet’s feelings, needs, and preferences. Guidance for rituals, care, and end-of-life decisions. Emotional reassurance for both pets and family members. I also help families: Understand what to expect during this chapter. Navigate difficult decisions with compassion. Create moments of peace, beauty, and dignity. Support children in understanding and coping with their pet’s passing. Support with decision-making for cremation, burial, or other arrangements Aftercare Support After your pet has passed, I provide continued support to help your family process grief and honor your pet’s memory. This can include: Emotional support for family members, including children. Guidance on rituals or memorials to celebrate your pet’s life. Help with coping strategies for grief and loss. Follow-up conversations to address questions or emotions that arise in the weeks after your pet’s passing. My Philosophy I believe saying goodbye to a pet is a time for focus on comfort, peace, and meaningful rituals.  I’ll help you connect deeply with your pet by sharing their messages to you, as well as your messages to them. Why This Matters Pets are family, accompanying us through milestones and everyday joys. With a pet death doula and animal communicator, families can: Move through this chapter with peace and understanding. Honor their pet’s needs and preferences. Receive guidance and support for emotional and practical challenges. Ensure their animal companion experiences comfort and dignity. Support children in understanding and processing grief. Benefits of working with me: Free 20-minute consultation to discuss your needs and your pet’s situation. Personalized guidance through this sacred, but painful, chapter. Emotional and practical support for your family and pet. Animal communication to better understand your animal companion’s feelings and preferences. Ideas and support for children and memorials to honor your pet. Aftercare support to help families process grief and find peace. Reach out today—I’m here to help you and your companion every step of the way. ~Tamarah Pet Death Doula Tamarahwildccmt@gmail.com

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